I have gotten many comments from friends and acquaintances saying that my refusal to date bi men is a sign of bigotry, and that I am subjecting them to the same unjustified prejudice that the rest of society heaps on gay people (especially gay men).
However, while I acknowledge that bisexuality exists, I simply lose all interest in a guy who is bisexual, or is a MSM and self-identifies as "straight". It's sort of like when you meet someone who spouses radical right wing ideas or has OCD in a bad way. It's just not attractive.
Does that mean that I hate bisexual men? Well, no. I just don't want to have anything to do with them, especially in a romantic sense. Have I slept with bisexual guys? Of course, but I never took it seriously and it was a matter of "let's get down to it and then, I'm out of the door".
I have never spoken badly of bisexual men, but I have also never, ever heard anything positive about them. I have an ex who is bi, but whenever I think of him with contempt, it isn't because he was bisexual, but because he is the human equivalent of rotting shit. Still, I must admit that coming to know that he was bisexual when our relationship was already on the rocks, didn't help matters.
So, is not wanting to date bi men a sign of intolerance and bigotry in gay men? I don't think so.
Do you?
by Anonymous | reply 131 | January 19, 2018 6:52 PM |
You're not a bigot OP; you're smart.
by Anonymous | reply 1 | July 26, 2014 12:55 AM |
They like to fuck gals, too.
by Anonymous | reply 2 | July 26, 2014 12:55 AM |
I stay away from marinated meat. Has that fish smell you just can't wash off.
by Anonymous | reply 3 | July 26, 2014 12:58 AM |
I personally don't think that any personal preferences when it comes to choosing a sex partner, or relationship partner, should ever be questioned. It's nobody's business who, what or why you find someone attractive.
by Anonymous | reply 4 | July 26, 2014 1:00 AM |
Thanks for weighing at r3, mhb.
by Anonymous | reply 5 | July 26, 2014 1:00 AM |
Your assumptions are offensive. But you should date whomever floats your boat.
It's like people who "aren't into Asians". If you've never found an Asian guy attractive, you don't need to feel guilty. However You should feel like an asshole for verbalise a point which is essentially "they're all the same". That does not reflect well on you.
I'm sure you've been the victim of assumptions and statements that boil down to "gays are all the same". It's nauseating that you'd do the same yourself but...
In short, zip it, OP.
by Anonymous | reply 6 | July 26, 2014 1:00 AM |
What if someone were to say that they refused to hire a bisexual person to work for them, because they think that bisexuals are inherently dishonest.
by Anonymous | reply 7 | July 26, 2014 1:02 AM |
Totally agree with R1. I've done it too and it was a period of lies and insanity and more lies. My experience of bisexuals is that they are inherently dishonest.
I would never date a bisexual. If someone uses that word bisexual then that's the end of it.
And no - you zip it R6.
by Anonymous | reply 8 | July 26, 2014 1:06 AM |
Some truth to that R7. Just kidding, but not the same thing.
There is a difference between dating someone with the intent of sexual relationship than hiring someone to do a job that has nothing to do with their private life.
by Anonymous | reply 10 | July 26, 2014 1:09 AM |
R6 does exactly what she claims to deplore. She sets up a straw man, putting words into the OP's mouth that were not part of the thread opener, climbs up on her soap box on those fat, short legs of hers, and starts to pronounce. Presumably with one hand on her fat hip, in the "I'm a Little Teapot" mode. She actually attacks the OP for "verbalising" something in a civil manner.
But her sort of phony, moralizing control freak parading as the voice of humane ethics always does this. Let's apply her own words to her case, since they fit:
Nauseating. Offensive. Asshole.
And I'll add one: CUNT.
by Anonymous | reply 11 | July 26, 2014 1:10 AM |
I too dated a Bi guy. It did not go so well. So I see your point.
I don't think you are being a bigot. It's your opinion. Your experience with it was negative, so you have chosen a specific stance on the subject.
by Anonymous | reply 12 | July 26, 2014 1:13 AM |
R6, unlike Americans who a mix of many races, Asians as a general rule tend to be very much a closed ethnic society. Ethnocentric.
So to say most Asians are ______ usually rings true. It dose not men 100%. It's a generalization.
Like most Hispanics speak Spanish or have black hair. That dose not make you racist just because some Hispanics are light skinned with blue eyes and blond hair.
Just a faster way to communicate a general preference. So shut the fuck up with your PC bullshit and Zip It.
by Anonymous | reply 13 | July 26, 2014 1:16 AM |
a thread bashing bisexuals on DL...so fresh, so new
by Anonymous | reply 14 | July 26, 2014 1:18 AM |
My partner said he was by when we first met, I know he got some girl prego when he was in high school.
The funny part is, he has now been with me for 15 years and every time he has to deal with women he gets pissed of and says you cant see how straight men put up with all their bullshit.
by Anonymous | reply 15 | July 26, 2014 1:20 AM |
Bisexual should stick to dating Bisexuals. Problem solved.
by Anonymous | reply 16 | July 26, 2014 1:21 AM |
r11 No one takes a load of shit like you just posted seriously. I agree with r6 , as any adult of average or above-average intelligence would.
by Anonymous | reply 17 | July 26, 2014 1:22 AM |
I agree with r6, and I agree with r17 that r11 is full of shit.
by Anonymous | reply 18 | July 26, 2014 1:29 AM |
Thank you, R11.
When have I even implied that "bisexuals are all the same"? Please, stop projecting your own issues on me, R6. The fact that I find bisexuality an unappealing trait doesn't mean that I am making generalizations. Yes, I have never heard anything good about a bisexual man, but that can easily be a matter of casuality. Nowhere in my previous post did I say that "all bisexuals are this" or "all bisexuals are that".
There's a clear difference between "I don't find this an attractive trait" and "all the people who have that trait are the same".
Moreover, why should I keep quiet for making a legitimate question, anyway? You need to respect other people's points of view.
R17, grow up.
by Anonymous | reply 19 | July 26, 2014 1:31 AM |
[quote]You need to respect other people's points of view.
Hear, hear!
by Anonymous | reply 20 | July 26, 2014 1:33 AM |
Dear OP you asked:
'am I a bigot?'
so don't be shocked if people reply with posts you don't like.
Sincerely,
Intelligence
by Anonymous | reply 21 | July 26, 2014 1:36 AM |
It's called self preservation OP. Bi men will always end up with a woman for lifetime relationships. You are fooling yourself if you think that he will choose you. Fuck Bi men.
by Anonymous | reply 22 | July 26, 2014 1:39 AM |
I don't blame you, but just be glad you have a few more options. Dick is dick. Enjoy giving head. Move on to a real homeowner. So much better long term. Just avoid the three-ways that they inevitably want with a gal.
by Anonymous | reply 23 | July 26, 2014 1:44 AM |
Not true, R22. Alan Cumming is bisexual (he was once married to a woman and reportedly dated other women) but he is now married to a man, so he's clearly an example of how not all bi men choose only women for lifetime relationships.
by Anonymous | reply 24 | July 26, 2014 2:10 AM |
[quote]It's called self preservation OP. Bi men will always end up with a woman for lifetime relationships. You are fooling yourself if you think that he will choose you. Fuck Bi men.
I can vouch for this. Both of the bi men that I was with eventually left me for women to go get married and have kids. When bi men are ready to settle down, 90% of the time it will be with a woman because it's an easier life. I know many other gay men who had the same experience with bi men.
I agree - let bi men be with bi men.
by Anonymous | reply 25 | July 26, 2014 2:17 AM |
I think OP you're doing yourself a great favour by not engaging with them, as long as not all of them are completely dishonest and playing games, or would treat you like their toy during their visit in "gayville" The statement itself is quite interesting "Dating bisexuals" - I don't think with them there is a lot of dating involved anyway, most of them are dl and paranoid about what their precious "straight peers" would think Another trait about them I find amusing While they complain about their exclusion in gay community on forums and social medias in real life they don't really wanna be associated, seen as gays I've seen this numerous times They look up to straights like those "poor cousins" even though to straights they're just as faggots as any of us Yet the number of heartaches and headaches they cause around - why would you need any of that It's not bigotry - it's a common sense Stick to full timers man
by Anonymous | reply 26 | July 26, 2014 6:44 AM |
The test for Bi guys is if they are OUT to their straight friends and family about being Bi.
It's all to easy to pretend you are straight when you are with the opposite sex and then bi when you hang with your gay friends.
It's a cop out. If they are truly comfortable and not hiding things, their straight piers should all know.
by Anonymous | reply 27 | July 26, 2014 6:58 AM |
Homosexual preferences are immune from convention. I think there was a ruling on it awhile back. Not only may you behave according to your ... conditions, you are free to discuss them.
by Anonymous | reply 28 | July 26, 2014 7:25 AM |
You are obviously a cheap slut so why should it matter?
by Anonymous | reply 29 | July 26, 2014 7:33 AM |
Out bi guys - how many any of you know? How many of those dl horny ones lurking net for sex do you know / did you do? They can't be out because that would slim down their women dating pool ( I've read about it on their bi forum) They don't wanna be out because they can pass for straight and reap all the heterosexual privileges none of us will ever be able to The best of their bullshit is " we don't control who we fall in love with, we like both" - now how many of them actually fell for a guy ( seriously) miraculously vast majority of them was able to fall for women, get married, settle down etc It's all calculated Us gays we don't bring any social prestige to their life - do we? They're only want us for sex We cannot provide them with this cosy life where everyone will applaud them I'd say - fuck them
by Anonymous | reply 30 | July 26, 2014 7:46 AM |
R29 sounds like an angry bi guy that OP wouldn't date.
by Anonymous | reply 31 | July 26, 2014 7:47 AM |
[quote]Both of the bi men that I was with eventually left me for women to go get married and have kids.
Oh, well, since you've known two who bisexual men who did this, it must be a strong trend amongst all bisexuals.
by Anonymous | reply 32 | July 26, 2014 9:14 AM |
[quote]My experience of bisexuals is that they are inherently dishonest. I would never date a bisexual. If someone uses that word bisexual then that's the end of it.
But wouldn't that actually make the guy in that particular instance sort of honest, since so many don't say they're bisexual but actually are?
by Anonymous | reply 33 | July 26, 2014 2:38 PM |
This is annoying when I hear bi guys justifying " so you've met few who did this- doesn't mean all of them are this bad" Every each one of us has a few bad experiences with them ( in my case way too many) But I never had a good experience with them That's the real reason You don't hear ( neither experience) good ending with those guys Where are those good endings???? Has anyone got any real success stories apart from lies, tricks, betrayal and head games that come from dealing with them? Why are they this flipping surprised people don't want that shit in their lives They play dudes ( to get some) , they play women ( to fit their asses into society ) Seriously are they this thick for being surprised Are you a bigot for not getting down with them? - NO NO NO
by Anonymous | reply 34 | July 26, 2014 3:57 PM |
The heart wants what the heart wants, OP.
by Anonymous | reply 35 | July 26, 2014 4:33 PM |
I've never met a bi guy, as far as I know. I have a crush on a straight guy who I think might be bi, though.
by Anonymous | reply 36 | July 26, 2014 4:43 PM |
So, I'm not a bigot after all?
by Anonymous | reply 37 | July 26, 2014 4:48 PM |
No way, you're not a bigot. I wouldn't date a bi guy for five minutes. They will always, ALWAYS end up with women because it's more socially acceptable, then continue to have their "fun" with men on the side. They get to have their cake and eat it, too. Fuck that.
by Anonymous | reply 38 | July 26, 2014 4:53 PM |
Self preservation, common sense, levelled head, selfrespect, and hundreds of other similar words but NOT A BIGOTRY apply in your case
by Anonymous | reply 39 | July 26, 2014 5:21 PM |
R29 - bisexual who doesn't like what guys are thinking about it I'd say you're ever cheaper - while you're fooling your precious gf/wife you'd get on your knees for any guy
by Anonymous | reply 40 | July 26, 2014 9:05 PM |
Can we be real for a minute? The truth is that the vast majority of bi men have a certain viewpoint: men are for sex and women are for serious relationships. There are tons of reasons for this but if we wade through all the pc bullshit this is the truth. Now we as gay men can continue to complain about it or we can come to terms with the reality of the situation. The prudent thing for gay men to do would be to view them through the same lens: bi men are for sex and gay men are for serious relationships.
by Anonymous | reply 41 | July 26, 2014 9:21 PM |
R41 You kinda suggesting a wise thing but I'd say let them shag each other For us - you can have gay man for sex and for serious relationship Why bother with them
by Anonymous | reply 42 | July 27, 2014 12:31 AM |
When I hear a guy is bi my dick/heart interpret that as straight so I file them under the friendship tab. It's an automatic thing for me, I just react to bi/straight in the same way: friendship only. Gay guys who pine after bi/straight men should be wary and are risking heartache imho.
by Anonymous | reply 43 | July 27, 2014 5:26 PM |
R43 You are absolutely right. Let bi men stay with bi men, because gay men getting with bi men almost never ends well.
by Anonymous | reply 44 | July 27, 2014 7:50 PM |
no.
all's fair love and war.
Guys are not bigoted based on attraction.
Like saying, if you are a homosexual you are a misogynist for not dating or having sex with women. You are discriminating against them, right?
You may be a jerk, but not a bigot for dating life.
It is okay to be cautious or suspicious in dating. If a guy likes you he will go out of his way to make you know it...and you should have a say if you feel the same.
by Anonymous | reply 45 | July 27, 2014 7:58 PM |
OP is stirring up shit, but even so: you can't be forced to date anyone because of anything, dependent on whatever rules you impose for yourself. But keep your private rules to yourself.
by Anonymous | reply 46 | July 27, 2014 8:01 PM |
R46 - What should his response be if they ask why, "it's not you it's me" ? He can't exactly skirt the issue of it altogether. I think it is a hypothetical that hasn't happen yet.
If a bi guy, who is ripped and fucking studly, decides to take an interest in a gay guy - that gay guy refuses, on the basis of bisexuality, then who am I to care. In fact, let me at him! I'll date him.
OK?
by Anonymous | reply 47 | July 27, 2014 8:06 PM |
[quote]What should his response be if they ask why, "it's not you it's me" ?
"I'm not interested in dating you."
He needs absolutely no other response or explanation. You don't have to rationalize to other people why you don't want to date them.
by Anonymous | reply 48 | July 27, 2014 8:10 PM |
My experiences with bisexual guys have turned me off them, Also many gay friends have similar bad experiences with bi guys using them, stringing them along till they hook up with a woman.
I'm not bi phobic, it's just self-preservation .
by Anonymous | reply 49 | July 27, 2014 8:35 PM |
R48 - That wouldn't work because you ended it on the issue of "you" - which begs the question of why.
So you could just be like I'm not interested in dating.
by Anonymous | reply 50 | July 28, 2014 2:15 AM |
having dated a bi guy, I'd run a mile before i'd date another. They are a toxic mess.
by Anonymous | reply 51 | July 28, 2014 2:26 AM |
I hope that the bisexuals reading this thread now understand why gay men don't want to get involved with them - they're users, sociopathic, and not worth our time or trouble.
by Anonymous | reply 52 | July 28, 2014 2:33 AM |
I'm not interested in dating bi men anymore. At the end of my last relationship with a bi guy, things went bad and he liked to club me over the head with the fact that he wasn't "like me". Meaning he's not a fag. Bi men have a weird superiority complex towards gay men, even gay men they are dating. By the way, he was a closeted bi of course, which made things even worse since he didn't want to acknowledge we were anything more than buddies to everyone else. Don't date bis, don't date closet cases.
by Anonymous | reply 53 | July 28, 2014 2:54 AM |
Was the sex at least good r53?
by Anonymous | reply 54 | July 28, 2014 3:02 AM |
Yeah, the sex was awesome, he was awesome at first, then he unraveled and became a mess. His life is a disaster now and he is probably headed to jail.
by Anonymous | reply 55 | July 28, 2014 3:18 AM |
[quote]That wouldn't work because you ended it on the issue of "you" - which begs the question of why.
I don't get why that matters. Why would you owe anyone an explanation for not dating them? If they ask why, just stare at them and repeat the refusal. if they ask further, walk away.
by Anonymous | reply 57 | July 28, 2014 4:10 AM |
OP, I am completely like you. Bisexuality is a complete turn off for me, because at the end of the day, they will ALWAYS turn on you, as the gay love interest. Not worth it.
As you say, fine for a quickie, but then I'm gone, goodbye.
by Anonymous | reply 58 | July 28, 2014 4:10 AM |
I'm not interested in dating blacks or Asians. Am I a bigot?
by Anonymous | reply 60 | July 28, 2014 4:55 AM |
I've had a chance to date bi guy He did flirt me for long time But the issues with bisexuality and insecurities and "down low" scenarios came up already on the way to actually get to know him He made me like him so much and he did like me At some point he did cut me off He never hurt me ( intentionally) the situation of all those limitations he was exposing " potential US" did hurt me as fuck I didn't fall for him but I like him a looooot I do miss him so much I guess I'd be better off if he ended up things turning into right jerk Yet he has done it in a way that only shows how much respect he had for me I wish him all the best of luck I did have a wicked time with him Even though he have raised my blood pressure at times ( due to him being so conflicted) Bisexuality is a fuck up orientation " it messes up" those guys first - then they mess with gays because of it
by Anonymous | reply 62 | July 28, 2014 9:28 PM |
I used to be more open-minded but after some bad experiences I don't want to date bis either. I'm sure not all of them are the same but I don't want to deal with it. I'm not going around announcing it non-anonymously though - just a preference.
by Anonymous | reply 63 | July 28, 2014 9:41 PM |
r63, that pretty much sums up my opinion on this topic.
by Anonymous | reply 64 | July 28, 2014 10:15 PM |
I've never met a truly bisexual man, one capable of having long-term relationships with both men and women. I'm sure they exist, but all of the bisexual men I've known have been sexually bisexual but capable of only having a steady, romantic relationship with a woman.
by Anonymous | reply 65 | July 28, 2014 11:21 PM |
I thought most straight guys wanted to hang out with each other and didn't like women all that much anyway except for sex. Now you're telling me that a bunch of bi guys are hung up romantically on women?
by Anonymous | reply 66 | July 29, 2014 5:19 AM |
I know this one hot dude that says he's not attracted to men, he if he really liked a another guy like that, he wouldn't be opposed to pursuing it. He says he's "open-minded". What should I make of that?
by Anonymous | reply 67 | August 2, 2014 6:42 PM |
R67 You can be sure he'd wanna shag - but he'd be crossing the street in town centre when with his mates just to avoid you You're only valuable in one respect - an ass to bang Socially they adore straights
by Anonymous | reply 68 | August 2, 2014 7:17 PM |
R68 Is it any wonder that bisexuals hate gay men look at the comments on this thread especially R52
by Anonymous | reply 69 | July 22, 2015 12:34 PM |
All r52 did was express good, common sense, part-time cunt licker r69.
by Anonymous | reply 70 | July 22, 2015 1:19 PM |
R70 'part-time cunt licker' Again you are just proving my point. If us bisexuals are all sociopaths, give some examples.
by Anonymous | reply 71 | July 22, 2015 4:34 PM |
I see no one has any examples of these supposed bisexual sociopaths proof you are all talk shit and then have nothing to back it up with.
by Anonymous | reply 72 | July 22, 2015 4:47 PM |
R72, here you have several examples in the thread below. More clearly, look for reply 70, 75, 82 and 101 to see a devious, manipulative bisexual pig who lied to the man he was engaged to, leaving a woman pregnant - then, when she refused to have an abortion, he abandoned her with the kid. The boyfriend only found out two years later, when she served the bisexual cheater with child support papers. The piece of shit had been playing both, without them knowing and, on top of it all, he was a dead beat father! Oh, and he deliberately lied to his boyfriend when he asked him if he was bisexual, by saying "NO".
There you have it, an example of many. Just look around this site.
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 73 | July 22, 2015 5:01 PM |
Bi guys can be fucked up liars. That's a phenomenon of the closet. As of 2014, something like 75-80% of gay men were out to their friends, families, and co-workers. Only about 25% of bi-guys were open about their sexuality to friends, families, and co-workers. Over time that number will go up.
The number of gay "families" is sky rocketing--gays with kids. Until somewhat recently, bi guys would mess around with dudes but need to stay closeted to preserve their ability to get married to a woman and settle down. Like everything else, that is changing.
There is nothing wrong with bi-sexual guys. You can date whoever you want, but if you need to draw a line, consider drawing it at not dating or fucking around with closeted bi-men. If they're open to their families, friends, and co-workers, they're probably in a good place emotionally.
by Anonymous | reply 74 | July 22, 2015 5:45 PM |
I don't know any "bisexuals" any more, r71. And that's "If we bisexuals..."
by Anonymous | reply 75 | July 22, 2015 6:09 PM |
Yes you are a bigot if you wont date bi guys.
by Anonymous | reply 76 | July 22, 2015 8:10 PM |
As far as I am concerned one's sexual and romantic agency is their OWN. If people want to call you names or a bigot -- that's their problem.
by Anonymous | reply 77 | July 22, 2015 8:35 PM |
Personally I find a guy more attractive when I find out he is bisexual.
by Anonymous | reply 78 | July 22, 2015 8:54 PM |
R73 that is one example, how is one person representative of all bisexuals?
by Anonymous | reply 79 | July 22, 2015 10:48 PM |
R79, I cannot post every single link there is. Looking around a little wouldn't harm you. However, there's plenty of material for you to find just on this site alone.
by Anonymous | reply 80 | July 22, 2015 11:04 PM |
NO !! You are not a bigot. You are sensible. Never date a bisexual and never date an alcoholic. Both bring nothing but misery. And if you ever encounter a bisexual who is also an alcoholic, RUN. Run and keep running until you are safe.
by Anonymous | reply 81 | July 23, 2015 12:37 AM |
R81 yeah run from me quick I could do anything
by Anonymous | reply 82 | July 23, 2015 1:04 AM |
[quote] yeah run from me quick I could do anything
Anything? Could you learn about grammar and punctuation?
by Anonymous | reply 83 | July 23, 2015 1:39 AM |
R83 No but I could teach a faggot like you how to take a dick properly
by Anonymous | reply 84 | July 23, 2015 1:43 AM |
R84 is late for his AA Meeting.
by Anonymous | reply 85 | July 23, 2015 1:55 AM |
LOL, R84. You call someone faggot after telling them that you could teach them how to take a dick properly?
Yes, because you are not half-a-faggot... LOL! I'm sure you're the troll who's been in all the other bisexuality threads, annoying the shit out of everyone.
So, not only are you a bi pig (and an alcoholic, to boot), but you're also an annoying wanker.
Let me tell ya where you can go (follow the link, you twat).
There you can rant as much as you want to. See? Easy!
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 86 | July 23, 2015 2:02 AM |
[quote]What if someone were to say that they refused to hire a bisexual person to work for them, because they think that bisexuals are inherently dishonest.
They would be right.
by Anonymous | reply 87 | August 21, 2015 7:17 PM |
r87 = the scared, whiny little bitch from the Grindr thread.
by Anonymous | reply 88 | August 21, 2015 7:19 PM |
OP, feel free to refuse anyone you wish to, dear.
I will say you are a wussie to take seriously the PC nonsense. Enough to ask about it here. Grow some balls.
by Anonymous | reply 89 | August 21, 2015 7:52 PM |
I don't feel fully romantically/sexually engaged with bi men because I know there is a part of their nature that I could never satisfy. Friendship is fine, but yeah, it is a turn off for me. I don't get excited by it but some gay men do. Also, I wonder if bi men even give a shit. I mean, gay men are such a small percentage of their potential dating pool (as compared to the much larger numbers of other bi men, bi women, straight women) why would they even care? I think we as gay men may be projecting when we presume this is even an issue for bi men.
by Anonymous | reply 90 | August 21, 2015 8:51 PM |
R41 already hit the nail on the head, it's too bad some of you idiots were naive enough to date bi guys. Most bi guys are hook up material and they view you in the same regard. If you find a rare good bi guy then date him I guess, but for the most part date GAY men, you'll be much better off
by Anonymous | reply 91 | August 22, 2015 1:55 AM |
Possibly unpopular opinion incoming: You're not a bigot for choosing not to date bi guys. Hear me out.
A bigot is someone who believes their way of thinking is the only right way and pushes their beliefs on others. If you go around treating bi guys with no respect in the workplace, in the community and elsewhere, you are a bigot. They are humans worthy of respect just like you. Ganging up on a bi guy and playing Mean Girls like you're in middle school is no better than gay bashing by straights.
BUT.
When it comes to dating and romance, "discrimination" and "prejudice" are no longer dirty words. We don't choose who we're attracted to (or not attracted to). If the thought of your partner being into girls is a turn-off, you can't help that. AND THE GOOD THING IS, YOU DON'T HAVE TO. You don't owe anyone your attraction, whether it's a hot bi guy, an ugly homo, a transman, a butch chick or the POTUS on a good hairday. The End.
Again, you should be proudly marching alongside your bi bros in every LGBT march and event you attend, as they're every bit as vital to the "movement" as we are. But people need to learn to separate entitlement to basic human respect from being entitled to everyone's intimate love and affection. That's how things like rape and abuse begin: with an attitude of entitlement.
by Anonymous | reply 94 | February 2, 2017 1:15 PM |
Bisexuals hate themselves and would never date one another for the exact same reasons we don't yet expect everybody else to love and fuck them to "prove we don't hate them". Kinda like trannies
by Anonymous | reply 95 | February 2, 2017 2:21 PM |
Troll post. No one gives a fuck who OP fucks. He is probably 300 lbs, wheezes all the time, takes propecia, and has acne all over his body.
by Anonymous | reply 96 | February 2, 2017 2:50 PM |
r41 and r91 are correct. I had a 3 year relationship with a bi guy and I had no prejudices beforehand. I would be skeptical of investing time in a bi guy now because his primary attraction to the relationship was in the service of sexual needs that couldn't be met with a woman.
by Anonymous | reply 97 | February 2, 2017 3:50 PM |
seriously, if the BI guy was really into ME, not just playing around, and not married to a woman, I'd maybe go for it.
unfortunately from my experiences, and they are many, BI guys aren't like that. they are players and usually married
by Anonymous | reply 98 | February 2, 2017 4:02 PM |
Where are you people meeting all these bisexuals? I'm a gay man in New York and I've met like two self-identified bisexuals in my life. I always thought bi guys mostly avoided gay men and kept to their own weird hippy swinger polyamory community. Or wherever it is they hang out-- I really have no idea. (Science fiction conventions?)
It's confusing to me that the rest of you keep finding yourselves entangled with so many wicked bisexuals that it constitutes a problem for you.
by Anonymous | reply 99 | February 2, 2017 4:30 PM |
R99 I agree with you.
I've run into self-proclaimed bi/dl/married guys via hookup stuff, but they overwhelmingly are bottoms and basically straight up gay. So my skepticism is deep and wide.
by Anonymous | reply 100 | February 2, 2017 4:39 PM |
If a guy is closeted, that Is a good sign that he's a mess, regardless of how he identifies his orientation. Unless you're both sixteen such people should obviously be avoided. (No shit?)
If a guy travels in gay circles and is comfortable saying he's bi, I don't see the problem. But such creatures are so exceedingly rare in my experience that I hardly see why one needs a policy for them.
by Anonymous | reply 101 | February 2, 2017 5:05 PM |
Who's bumping all the old threads?
by Anonymous | reply 102 | February 2, 2017 5:10 PM |
^ people are bored by all the Trump threads.
by Anonymous | reply 103 | February 3, 2017 3:34 PM |
I suck a Bi guy for lunch.
but I'll never invite him for dinner
by Anonymous | reply 104 | February 3, 2017 3:46 PM |
Online sexual hook-ups present a unique opportunity to explore many factors of decision-making that inform sexual health. A study conducted by Eric Schrimshaw, PhD, at Columbia University’s Mailman School of Public Health and Martin J. Downing, Jr., PhD, of the National Development and Research Institutes, found evidence that men having sex with men use the Internet to find sexual partners who do not identify as gay, either to fulfill a fantasy or because it allows anonymous sexual encounters without discovery. The findings are online in the first issue of the journal Psychology of Sexual Orientation and Gender Diversity, published by the American Psychological Association.
by Anonymous | reply 105 | September 9, 2017 1:45 PM |
Bi guys just want to fuck you but not pay for dinner, avoid at all costs op.
by Anonymous | reply 106 | September 9, 2017 2:06 PM |
[quote]you should date whomever floats your boat.
"Whoever," dear.
by Anonymous | reply 107 | September 9, 2017 2:15 PM |
Do not blame you at all OP you cannot run with hares and hunt with the hounds.
by Anonymous | reply 108 | September 9, 2017 2:30 PM |
[quote]if they are truly comfortable and not hiding things, their straight piers should all know.
That's right, dear.
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 109 | September 9, 2017 3:06 PM |
You're not a bigot you're just a liar.
Not a single person on this thread would pass up on a bi guy and you know it. You talk big shit but you would be on your knees given the opportunity.
by Anonymous | reply 110 | September 9, 2017 3:14 PM |
Not everyone is a desperate as you are. I know that is hard for you to fathom.
by Anonymous | reply 111 | September 9, 2017 3:26 PM |
Nice diss, maybe it would have impact if you all weren't in your mothers basement.
by Anonymous | reply 112 | September 9, 2017 3:46 PM |
You are as tired as your corny old put downs.
by Anonymous | reply 113 | September 9, 2017 4:00 PM |
How funny a bunch of queens quacking among themselves about rejecting men they can't get. LOL
by Anonymous | reply 114 | September 9, 2017 4:16 PM |
Some of the best sex I've had has been with bi guys (back before I developed a better moral sense). But I wouldn't attempt a serious relationship with one. After all, if every bi guy I had was cheating on their wife or girlfriend with me, why would I think they wouldn't cheat on me, too?
by Anonymous | reply 115 | September 9, 2017 4:31 PM |
I only mess with bi and fluid guys.
by Anonymous | reply 116 | September 9, 2017 4:44 PM |
The bi men who overall prefer women usually end up with women and the ones that overall prefer men, you dismiss as gay. Confirmation bias.
And the real story here underneath the victim bullshit is that is that YOU should stop messing with heterosexually-married men and expecting a positive outcome, you whores.
by Anonymous | reply 118 | September 9, 2017 6:32 PM |
r94, good post. Some gay men are turned on by the fact that a guy is into both men and women, some people on this thread have expressed as much. For me it's a turn off. Both are valid feelings.
by Anonymous | reply 120 | September 10, 2017 12:17 AM |
I find it odd when people conflate homosexuals and bisexuals when they are so different. Bisexuality represents everything between homosexuality and heterosexuality, by its very nature it is unbelievably complex. Not only that, it can change and evolve over the course of someone's lifetime.
by Anonymous | reply 123 | September 13, 2017 2:54 AM |
I only get with bi and straight-identified guys. I have more in common and vibe with them. Am I a bigot against gay guys?
by Anonymous | reply 124 | September 13, 2017 3:29 AM |
R123 , bisexuals love to think they are complex, but they really aren't. R124 , you are drawn to insecure men who are desperate not to seem "gay." Choose any word, but it's all the same thing.
by Anonymous | reply 125 | September 13, 2017 4:01 AM |
This guy seems to have learned his lesson and will be spiraling into alcoholism to deal with it.
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 126 | September 13, 2017 4:20 AM |
I wouldn't get into a relationship with a guy who is into BDSM or watersports. Not because I think that stuff is wrong but because I'm just not into that stuff. Obviously bisexuality isn't a kink but the same concept applies here. That's not bigotry, I just don't feel compatible on a sexual/romantic level with bi guys, others like r124 feel differently and that's valid too.
by Anonymous | reply 127 | September 13, 2017 7:35 AM |
Yes OP. You are probably a racist too.
by Anonymous | reply 128 | September 13, 2017 7:43 AM |
OP, per your question: your not wanting to date bi guys does not make you a bigot.
by Anonymous | reply 129 | September 13, 2017 8:38 AM |
There is not any problem with being bisexual. There is a lot of misconceptions about it, but is mostly because of the bad experiences people had with them. Everyone is a different world. The only thing I can not accept of them is that there is not a clear intention from the beginning, if they are looking for a relationship regardless of the gender, is unfair that some girls have to find out later on that their bf is bisexual when they already have involved their feelings without have the chance to choose if they will be ok with it, and is unfair for guys when they have to be hidden because their boyfriend have not come out of the closet yet as what he is. Yes, there is relationship with gay guys in the closet too, but the difference with bisexuals is that it creates a resentment when you find out your boyfriend had girlfriends AND made them part of their daily lives normally, but you, because you are a guy and their social circle is not yet used to homosexual relationship, have to become a forced secret and this in the long run make you feel worthless as a person. Both girls and guys should have the same rights in a relationship with a bisexual, because if they say they do not see gender but individuals, then that should not be an issue. Dating a closeted bisexual being a gay out of the closet will drain you sooner or later. There is nothing to lose for them, as there is straight girls everywhere more than gay guys. Date anyone you want to, no matter orientation, but never allow somebody to make you feel like if you are something that needs to be hide. This is the XXI century, there is worst things happening under the light of the sun.
by Anonymous | reply 130 | January 19, 2018 5:03 PM |
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